Fall PCS: When the leaves are falling and so is your patience
Just when you thought moving couldn't get more challenging, try a fall PCS while tripping over pumpkins and dodging early holiday displays. But fear not, fellow military nomads! We've got some tried-and-true tips to help you navigate this seasonal adventure.
First, let's tackle the elephant in the room – or should I say, the pumpkin in the patch? Moving during the school year. It's about as fun as a root canal, but it's doable. Pro tip: Start communicating with both the old and new schools early. Get those records transferred faster than you can say "Common Core." And remember, teachers are usually superheroes in disguise. Keep them in the loop, and they'll help your kiddos transition smoother than a pumpkin spice latte.
Speaking of pumpkin spice, let's talk about holiday planning from your new duty station. Yes, it feels weird to be hanging tinsel when you're still living out of boxes. Embrace the chaos! Use this as an opportunity to start new traditions. Can't find your usual decorations? Challenge the family to a DIY decoration contest using moving materials. Nothing says "festive" like a Christmas tree made of packing peanuts, right?
Now, for the real talk – dealing with the emotional toll of a fall move. It's okay to feel a bit blue when everyone else is posting cozy autumn photos and you're knee-deep in bubble wrap. Take a breather. Go for a walk in your new neighborhood. The changing leaves are a perfect reminder that change, while sometimes tough, can be beautiful.
Here's a hack from a family who's been there: Use the move as an excuse to purge before the holidays. Less to unpack now, less to pack next time, and you've just made room for all those well-meaning holiday gifts from relatives who don't quite get the whole "we live in 1000 sq ft" thing.
Dealing with fall weather during a move can be tricky. One family swears by keeping a "move day" box with essentials like umbrellas, light jackets, and warm socks easily accessible. Because nothing says "welcome to your new home" like soggy boxes and cold feet.
For those mid-semester school transitions, create a "school command center" as soon as you arrive. A dedicated space for backpacks, paperwork, and a family calendar can help everyone stay organized amidst the chaos. And don't forget to schedule some one-on-one time with each kid to check in on how they're handling the move.
Holiday planning from a new duty station? Start by researching local traditions in your new area. It's a great way to explore and feel connected to your new community. One family made it a tradition to buy one special ornament from each new duty station, creating a tree full of memories over the years.
Lastly, don't forget to take care of yourself. It's easy to get lost in the move madness. Set up one room – just one – as your sanctuary. Make it cozy, make it yours. It'll be your retreat when the stress of unpacking, new schools, and looming holidays feels overwhelming.
Remember, you've got this. You're part of a community that understands the unique challenges of military life. Reach out, connect with your new neighbors, and don't be afraid to ask for help. After all, who knows? Your next best friend might be just a "can I borrow a cup of sugar and your sanity?" away.
And speaking of looking out for yourself, don't forget to update your insurance coverage with your new address. Armed Forces Insurance understands the challenges of frequent moves and can help ensure your new home and belongings are protected from day one.
Ready to make your fall PCS a little less stressful? Visit afi.org/afimsoy today to update your policy or get a quote for your new home. Because when it comes to military moves, being prepared is always in season!